it's time to grow up. no one is supposed to be responsible for your happiness or sadness. you're your own girl and you can do anything without anyone's help. you can't be dependant towards your family or friends. well, family is not going anywhere but friends always come and go. wherever you are, you make new ones but never get attached, you may not be as important to them as they are to you. boys, they don't control your emotions. if they leave, let them but its best to leave first. don't care about what people think of you, you don't think about them at all. let the crowd do the talking but you do you. your future and goals don't wait for anyone, including your parents. soar the highest limit until you get what you want. it's all worth it in a while. most people say money can't buy us happiness, but sure as heck can pay the bills. you can drown in sadness but with a stable job and doing what you love, sadness won't consume the most of you. accept truths that people tell you but only because you know yourself. don't take things too seriously, life is a ride on a roller coaster. its for fun not for foe.
in 10 years, you'll look back and realise that these morals will be the pillars of who you are. amin.